Wednesday, October 27, 2010

First time?

I'm a virgin and thinking about having sex for the first time and i wanted to know if it hurt how bad dose it hurt beside using a condom what else do i need to knowFirst time?
Each women is different. Some feel pain others don't.. some bleed others don't so there is no way for sure what you will fee.
Just make sure you are ready (and old enough) to have sex. The more comfortable and relaxed you are about it the better you will feel
well it may hurt but only for the first minute after that juss relax and enjoy..but make sure your ready. your first time is special.and try not to tense up down there bcuz that might be a bit painful for you..so like i said juss relax .
Make sure its the right guy.. else wait.
Relax and enjoy!!
Feeling pain can be mental rather than physical. What I mean by this is you might not be wet enough down there because you are freaked out and nervous about doing it. Make sure you are doing it for "you" and not to make someone like you. That is more than 50% of it right there. It may hurt slightly at first. If you still hurt after that and want to stop. Say so. A good guy will respect that.
make sure its the right person!!...
The first time I had sex it did hurt a little...probably because I wasn't wet enough on my own and the condom didn't want to go inside of me easily. If you have lubricant (or if you just put spit on it) it helps. And I did bleed a good bit...be prepared with a pad just in case. You will NOT want to use a tampon right after your first time.
Be safe. Be sure he is who you want to lose your virginity to.

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